intheminds - Domináns Férfi

Updated on 3.12.2025, minor edits, added test

Greetings dear Reader!

I am looking for a lady who is interested in a submissive for a long term relationship in the Budapest area.

The short version: females only, 40- please, only singles, interested in long term relationships only, real subs only who want to have their submissiveness in and out of the bedroom , no brats please. Tattoos in moderation. This is a non-smoking offer! :)

I may update my lovingly prepared text in the future, but for now, it includes most major points. I hope it is informative! Feedback is welcome!

What I am looking for:
- we should get along well as human being, have something in common, etc.
- good manners
- no exceptionally high IQ required, but we should be to intellectually challenge each others
- honesty and reliability
- be able to communicate your ideas and wishes
- be able to make decisions and innovate, and know the appropriate time and place for it
- you should not be in relationship, and willing to dedicate yourself to our relationship as in any other releationship
- by it's very nature of this relationship, you should plan for a long term relationship, which we will see if it works out or not; this is not 24/7, but it is a lifestyle choice
- have more or less average weight for your height
- you should want and enjoy (most of the time :)) to be a submissive
- your submissiveness should go beyond sexuality and extend to your behaviour and every day actions (within the established limits), which means you should enjoy giving up control over your behaviour and actions, with the outmost respect of your private life (work, family, etc.). Please, take this point very seriously.
- you should want to have your sexuality in prominent position in your life
- aim for change and growth, are you a better submissive after a year? (less inhibited, less shy/hesitant, etc.)
- as a bit of a conservative so I am not really keen on "wild" things, like glittering, pink fingernails, full body tatoos, etc. If in doubt err on the conservative side
- having exhibitionist tendencies is nice, but not required
- beginners are welcome!

What you should expect from me:
- as expected from you our relationship will remain exclusive (if you want others to join later, it is possible)
- honesty and integrity (important points for me)
- I will clearly communicate my concerns and opinions, if not tell me :)
- care and attention to your wishes and concerns
- while sexuality is very important to me, domination is my main thrill (mindfucking, edging,conditional sexual release, etc.)
- will always leave the choice to you, only taking for granted what you agreed to (I open doors, you have to step through)
- I do not do extreme sexual practices and depending on my partners requirements,I generally cause paint only in form of disciplinary punishment if necessary. Soft power is so much more better
- I am intellectually progressive, but rather conservative in behaviour, and/but/yet/despite that open minded and tolerant
- I am irritated by stupidity and intolerance, and enjoy smart conversation even with other people
- idealistic, tempered by the harsh reality :)
- willing to commit time and energy into our relationship, which, I hope, will be long term. I appreciate and cherish my partner if I see serious commitment (and we get along :) )
- hyperactive personalities should avoid me like plague! I like continuity and peace around me. I like to enjoy the moment.
- love being home, traveling, dancing and subdued elegance in most things

The quasi-obligatory BDSM test with comments:

100% Dominant
100% Owner
97% Degrader
96% Rigger
96% Master/Mistress
88% Daddy/Mommy
88% Brat tamer -> nope, definitely not in the taming business
72% Primal (Hunter) -> onyl in a civilised form
65% Sadist -> physically only in a limited way, mentally and socially absolutely
64% Experimentalist -> it depends on mutual agreement, but not the rough stuff
62% Ageplayer -> not really
56% Exhibitionist -> my sub mostly
53% Voyeur -> occasionally
50% Vanilla
37% Non-monogamist -> not really, bit depends, but I either my sub is mine or not
0% Switch
== Results from bdsmtest.org: ==


Interested? Send me a message, chat me up, talk/meet and see if we like each other or not. Thank you for your interest!

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